I like two things. Having a clean home, and getting high here and there.
I smoked a lot in college but I can't smoke as much anymore. This works well, I use weed as a bit of a treat in a way. Smoking too much I can really feel it impacting my concentration at work and diet and such.
So, here's the deal with me and weed right now. I have every second friday off. A buddy of mine I go to gym with get together and blaze after our workout. I have a pretty good home theatre setup and he is a big movie/tv buff. He watches a lot of Indy content. Him and I get home maybe 20 minutes after my partner leaves for work. He brings some weed and we blaze, maybe listen to music, chat and play games or whatever. From here, he'll watch the more Indy stuff on my tv, whereas I'll get onto my cleaning routine. We're both cool with this, we hang other times too.
In my high state I find I really enjoy cleaning. Put my headphones on and get it all out of the way in one go thoroughly.
I will clean the entire home
- dishes and clothes clean and put away
- bathrooms
- vacuuming
- lawns and yard (not much)
- throwing out rubbish as it gets collected that day
- windows
- dusting
- groceries (but done night previous)
- do any other random things (paperwork/pay bills/errands)
- Also during this time I'm put some baking and dinner on, maybe some cookies for the munchies and some meat and veg on for our dinner later on that night and some leftovers into the weekend.
the whole place is sparkling. I have a very effective and efficient time routine for how I do all of this. Whole thing takes maybe 4ish hours. I even write down new things I look to do, like buying those toilet pod things that clean it everytime you flush, that's my most recent one.
This 'one time all at once clean' also keeps the place looking pretty good up until the next time spare friday comes around. I only need to clean up a bit when I make the next dinner, or it's just one pile of rubbish/washing and not multiples, for example. Any work done in that day is meant to minimise/eliminate work outside of that day.
Once it's all done, I sometimes have one more blaze. Just as a 'everything's done now' blaze kinda thing.
My gf appreciates this, and regularly takes credit for it. Her friends will come over and be 'you've cleaned so well' and she'll say thanks even though she did nothing, hell they'll even eat the cookies I bake and tell me I'm lucky she's a good baker and she'll nod along with it all. I don't really care about this. She literally has little to no household duties to do, even her own clothes etc, and now that I'm writing this out just realise doesn't take much initiative herself with chores and I have to ask more than once for whatever infrequent stuff does come up, and it's then done half ass like not rinsing a plate before putting it in dishwasher then food goes hard on it etc, but whatever.
She knows I used to smoke. But dosent know I currently smoke every now and then.
So, this past Friday, i decide to have one last blaze after everything was done and wasn't expecting my partner home for another two hours. Well, as im a few puffs in she walks in the door and sees me high with the pipe in my mouth.
AND SHE BLOWS UP. eg: are you smoking drugs!? Are you a drug addict! What are you doing getting high all day! Is this what you are! You need help! What else are you doing?
Ever since then she's been given me silent treatment and saying I need help and she's not sure of us anymore, talking about her friends bf's that aren't 'drug addicts' (even though some of that social crowd have gotten themselves into various significant troubles with alcohol)
I can't get a word in. She doesn't even want to have a conversation about it.
Some info - I've been doing this since before I was with current gf - my buddy is a stand up guy. Can't fault him, not dodgy or anything. Think his relative has a medical thing he gets hooked up. - my house, paid off - no weed is kept in house, my buddy brings it and takes it all. - I don't have drug testing at work/roadside testing or anything like that. I'm progressing in my career - we split bills 50/50 - were both pretty good with each other's separate lives/hobbies - we get along with each other friends/families - I don't need to smoke, many times I don't do the above routine on my days off. I've taken extensive breaks numerous times. I can take it or leave it. I don't and haven't used any other drugs and maybe drink if the occasion calls for it. As I said, it's a reward thing..... And I don't mind being productive on it.
Tl:dr I get high and clean my home thoroughly. Gf doesn't like I get high to clean.
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