Saturday, 12 May 2018

I (21m) looking at first real relationship and I'm scared and hurting

I started dating a girl about 4 weeks ago, and since we've met up on a very frequent basis. We hang out by a river, and honestly, when we're there, I don't wanna move.

We've slept together multiple times, and I've even met a few of her friends, now.

Yesterday was the only day this week we haven't met up. We were set to, but she had a lot of college work to get through and we agreed she'd stay in and get it done. It might even stretch the whole weekend.

But the thing is I'm scared, I'm really really into this girl and not seeing her for a day made me realise how into her i am. I was checking and replying to her snaps basically all night, my heart was like a lead weight.

I'm terrified of the idea that i might end up creeping her out with how invested my feelings are for her, but not seeing her is honestly horrible, i miss her so strongly already, even though we've only been seeing eachother for 4 weeks. 21 years of having nobody and now this makes me feel so turbulent and strange

I'm honestly not sure what advice I'm looking for, but just something.

tl;dr- been alone for 21 years, 4 weeks of dating a girl and I'm completely head over heels, feels horrible not seeing her

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