So my fiancée called me earlier, and basically said that she hasn’t been happy for some time. We’re going to talk later when we’re both home (I have left work for the day, this is too much to deal with) but it’s not sounding great. I’ll give a bit of background but would like to hear if anyone went through something similar before their wedding day, and what the outcome was?
We’ve been together since 2015 and been engaged a year. We haven’t been intimate in quite a while but we’ve both put that down to her meds - she has a number of mental health issues and the meds she’s on do have a side effect of reducing libido. I’ve also put a lot of her behaviour down to her depression (and other things) of late, but when I suggested on the phone earlier that the way she is feeling is linked to either her depression or her meds (numbing her feelings, which they do) she was adamant that was not the case.
I love her, and she says she loves me. But I basically got out of her that she is not attracted to me any more. I thinks it’s a case of she love me, but is not in love with me.
Don’t know what else to say really. I’m sure there’s tonnes of things I could write about that maybe I have been linking to her depression etc but that are actually just that she’s unhappy with me. I’m also terrified that this is actually all just symptoms of her MH issues and/or the meds and that she’ll do something that she later regrets. Any anecdotes of similar experiences are welcome. I’m feeling pretty gutted and empty right now. And I’m supposed to be getting married next month :|
TL;DR; : 6 weeks out from my wedding and I think my fiancée might be breaking up with me. Advice from similar situations welcome.
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