Me and my parents never had a good relationship. My junior year of college, about 7 years ago, we had a major falling out and I stopped hiding my feelings of their toxicity. They still wanted me in their life and I made it clear that I did not. I only saw them about once a year the last few years when I had too(pick things up, get paperwork, sign stuff, my sisters milestones, etc) but essentially we do not have a relationship. Me and my wife had a small wedding mainly because we both aren’t too fond of weddings, don’t think marriage is that big of a deal, are focused more on other things so we basically just signed the documents and celebrated with our friends, it was also a tactic to avoid having our families throw hissy fits for not inviting them. Regardless, I took her last name because I want to cut my family out. I do not associate with my family(besides my sister) and I no longer want any association. My parents found out and have been pestering me ever since trying to make me feel bad, trying to get me to call them, and trying to get me to change it back. I want absolutely nothing to do with them. How do I make this stop?
TL;DR
I took my wifes last name to spite my parents, they won’t stop harassing me
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