Monday, 21 May 2018

[UPDATE] My[f24] boyfriend[30] was mad at his parents. I told him my honest opinion it really hurt him. Can we recover?

Original posthttps://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/8jwizi/myf24_boyfriend30_was_mad_at_his_parents_i_told/

I got a lot of responses when I posted about me and my boyfriend (and his mother).

So I thought it would be nice to give you guys an update.And I would like to thank you for your response it helped me a lot.I had apologised to him for choosing a really bad moment to criticize his relationship with his mother. He said he wasn't really mad at me just needed some time alone to think.Later he said he didn't want to talk about his mother with me anymore but he would like for me to go with him to his hometown visit his grandmother grave (we would be staying at his parents). I accepted.The trip went well he got very emotional talking to his grandfather ( that'll now be living with my boyfriend's parents).He also had a talk with his mother but I don't know exactly how it went.When we were travelling back he told me more details about his childhood, how he was sick all the time, had no friends and his mother put her career aside to be by his side. Now he always feel like he owns her whatever she wants from him.It was a huge step for him admitting to that and talking about more openly and he admited some things need to change

Tl;DR Update we talk and he opened up about his childhood and his relation with mother, he admited some things need to change

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