The title says it all, but if we’re getting in-depth then he’s basically a coach in bed.
Me: moaning
Him: can you go a little lower?
Me: uh.. yeah sure
Me: moaning lower
Him: okay I’m about to cum, can you make your voice really high pitch?
Me: ... moans at a high pitch
Him: okay okay now can you say “come in me” but stutter at the same time?
Me: (what the fuck?) okay?
And this has been going on for a few months now. He’s been my boyfriend for about 2 years and our sex life is great, but now it’s literally Simon Says the entire time. I don’t have a problem with it but I’m afraid in the future I’m going to have one, since I don’t know if he’s getting this from porn or whatnot but it feels very.. Unrealistic. I mean, I’ve told him I’m open to hearing feedback, and I’ve even told him to be more vocal.. But this is something else, IMO.. Has this ever happened to you guys.. Should I be okay with this? I know I am as of right now but I’m afraid of what measures he’s going to take in the future (degrading, whips, roleplay). I have no problems with these I just feel that they aren’t for me, and if we were to do these down the road I would think it would’ve stemmed from this. I know I could always communicate to him what I am/am not comfortable with, but I just want to know if this is normal and if it should be tolerated? Again, no problems with it but very scared it will hurt me in the long run because I’m too lenient.
Tl;dr: Boyfriend keeps instructing me on how to moan when we have sex. Will this hurt me in the long run? Is this something to get upset over?
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