I [36f] cannot initiate sex with my boyfriend [36m] of 2 years. It has been like this since we started dating. He doesn’t initiate as much as I have been used to in previous relationships, which ends up making me feel unwanted and frustrated. I’ve never had to initiate sex in a relationship. I do have a higher drive than he does and prefer to have sex 3-4 (or 7) times a week whereas he’s a once or twice a week person but is open to more if I initiate. The main thing is I feel like I’m bothering him; he has never done anything to indicate that’s the case. We’ve talked about it many times and he’s directly asked me to initiate more. We have a fun, loving, healthy and stable relationship. When we do have sex it’s great. I’ve been to therapy but can’t fit it in my work/family/budget right now. I am typically a strong woman and very comfortable with my sexuality but just can’t seem to work through this. We don’t live together but see each other most days.
TL;DR can’t initiate sex in my supportive, loving, healthy relationship
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