Saturday, 12 May 2018

Found out about cheating days before getting married and moving from one continent to another (we have a small kid), no idea how to proceed

It's a 6 year relationship with a young kid. We live on the American continent and the plan is to move to Europe in a few weeks after getting married.

She initially denied that something happened, now she admits that there were messages but tries to play down what happened, saying it was just texting, while categorically refusing to show me the messages. I hid the phone for the moment to prevent any deletion of data, which I realise is no solution at all.

I'm contractually obliged to start at a new job in Europe in June. Not getting married would pretty much prevent her being anywhere close to our kid because of Visa reasons, which despite what happend is not what I want. I'm totally destroyed just thinking about our kid and have no one to talk about.

**tl;dr Found out about cheating with wedding and a transcontinental relocation just around the corner and am complete lost**

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