So my two room mates and I live in Hawaii. One of them has a fiancé who moved here to attend college. She stays over 3-4 times a week but she lives in the local school dorms as well. I’m not very close with her, although I don’t have a problem or dislike her. I’m pretty sure she’s about to move in because it’s summer and I noticed my room mate bringing all sorts of things back from her dorm like boxes of clothes and a mini fridge. My problem is that having her around all the time makes my feel kind of uncomfortable in the house I pay rent for. They kind of crowd my other room mate and I out because they’re always cooking what they want and using the tv. She doesn’t have a job or any money to contribute. Also I’m sick of her hair all over the bathroom...On one hand I do not want her LIVING here, but on the other hand she might not have anywhere else to live since this isn’t her native state. we all signed a lease until January so they can’t really move out together because I intended to have room mates to save money, which I need to keep up, but I also didn’t think about them starting to “run the house”. I probably should have considered that. Should I ask to pay less in rent? How should I approach my room mate and what would be reasonable in your experience???
TL;DR - My roommate’s fiancé appears to be moving in without letting me know first. How should I approach them?
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