Friday, 11 May 2018

He (18m) ghosted me (18f) after having sex

I liked this guy for a couple of months and we were talking every day, weren't in a relationship though. I stated at the beginning that I wasn't looking for a one night stand but wasn't asking for something serious either.

Anyway, he said he didn't mind because we clicked so well and I was happy with it, we had plans to go places together and do stuff.

Well I stayed over at his for three nights and we had sex a few times during that time and after that we messaged a couple more times and then he blanked me. After we had sex it was as if his personality instantly changed...

How do I get over this? I usually don't mind one time flings but I had feelings for this person so I told them I wasn't looking for that.

Now I am scared to have sex with someone that I like in case it's the only thing that they want and I really don't want to open up to someone as this has happened before and it just makes me really sad that I am seen as nothing more than a thing to use and leave behind...

Tl;dr guy got what he wanted after months of talking and blanked me, leaving me to wonder what am I supposed to do to prevent this happening in future situations.

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