In the beginning of April, I started dating a guy [25M] that I quickly connected with. We have similar interests and personalities and we started hanging out a lot.
I met one of his closest friends, [22F], who he goes to school with and spend very much time with. I have a history of exes that lied to me a lot about relationships with female friends and exes which has made me very cautious about these things. I absolutely want the guy I date to be able to have female friends as long as nothing is going on between them.
Yesterday, he got a call from her where she wanted to talk some about the trip through Europe they are making this summer. Turns out both of them are going on a 2 week trip with a couple of other friends and then a 2 week trip ALONE. He also tells me that half a year ago, he and his female friend decided to have sex because they both felt lonely after their exes. He says it didn't mean anything to none of them, that it was a mistake and that they only are very good friends now and I believe him on this.
However, since I am quite jealous of me because of some messy stories with my exes, I found that it is such an unusual relationship and don't know if I can handle them being such good friends and hanging out when they've had sex. I can't help feeling that I am disliking his female friend but I don't feel like I can demand anything from him either. I need to accept the situation as it is today or not date him anymore and this is what he also tells me.
Problem is that I really, really am starting to like him and don't want to give up on him. Does anyone have any similar experience?
TL;DR The guy I'm dating slept with his close female friend a couple of months ago. He says it was a mistake and that they only are good friends now. They spend a lot of time together and I am jealous and sees her as a problem.
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