I've been dating him for a month now. We have known each other for a year and a half prior to dating though. He is an extroverted and fun person to be around and I really enjoy spending time with him.
Our dates have been more indoorsy and evening dates such as going out to a bar, restaurant, or to each other's places. We've been to a farmer's market once which I really liked, and a concert as well. I like a mix of staying in and going out, but he is much more busy than I am. He works 2 jobs and his full time job is pretty unpredictable and his schedule can change in a moment's notice. I have a typical 9-5 job where my weekends are pretty open. He works 5-6 days a week.
So planning with him is sometimes a nightmare lol. He feels bad for his schedule and will always apologize. I usually just suggest we hang out and he will let me know when he's free. And But lately due to his tight schedule, we haven't been able to see much of each other until the evenings after work or for a few hours on a Saturday. I want to ask him to go to a cool museum with me or go on a hike, but I feel like he won't have time. How do I bring up that I want to go out on more fun daytime dates, without making him feel pressured?
TL;DR: Guy I am dating has a tight schedule so it's hard planning more daytime and outdoor type dates. How do I bring it up to him that I want to do more of these types of things without making him feel worse or pressured?
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