So my boyfriend lets call him Tyler went through a pretty rough divorce last year when his wife cheated on him with several other men, kicked him out, and then immediately moved one of her partners in.
It has been a rough deal for him, and I only met him about 5 months ago (we were seeing each other a month before we made it official). Anyways, I have never met any of his kids, they live with his ex-wife and we have taken it slow. About 2 weeks ago his 17 year old was kicked out by the ex's boyfriend and moved in with Tyler. I have been over but only while his daughter has been at work or not home.
She expressed interest in meeting me and I am absolutely happy and looking forward to meeting her. Tyler and I talked and he is comfortable with it and feels like it is a good step to take in the relationship. Especially where this daughter is older and is now living with him.
So his daughter is very very into makeup (as am I), but doesn't have anything to store it in and right now she has and uses all of her makeup from a plastic grocery sack. Her and tyler share a bathroom right now since his other bathroom is being remodeled. I thought that maybe it would be a cute idea to go to our local makeup store and buy her a makeup bag/organizer and leave it on his porch as a surprise for her with a little note that says "I am so excited to meet you! I know sharing a bathroom with a boy is rough, and I wanted to get this for you! Can't wait to meet you!" But I also don't want to go overboard, but want her to feel comfortable meeting me since I am her dad's first girlfriend since his divorce. I have also never dated a guy with kids before, so it is new to navigate for me, help!
TLDR: BF's older daughter really wants to meet me. I thought about getting a gift for her before we meet, don't know if it is overboard!
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