I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years, and we've never had any problems in the past. He is kind and caring and protective and always makes me laugh. We do fight somewhat regularly, but I don't think it's any more than any other couple I know. We had friends over for drinks this Saturday, and I dropped my phone, and it stopped working. After everyone left, I asked if I could borrow his phone while he was showering to text a mutual friend and when I opened the thread I saw my name, so I scrolled up and saw that my bf has been sending him nude photos of me.
After I saw this, I went and looked at his other texts, and he's been sending them to several guys. I'm so hurt and violated. I am a very private person, and I feel like I can never look any of these guys in the face again. I decided I had to confront my BF so when he got out of the shower, and we got into a huge fight. He yelled at me for invading his privacy and said I never told him not to share them. I thought this was ridiculous and told him so and he pushed me. He's never been violent with me before, and he immediately apologized after. I told him I accepted his apology but it was honestly really scary. He is over a foot taller than me and at least 100 pounds heavier. I'm not sure what to do, I love him so much.
I don't want to throw away 6 years together. We have plans to get married and have kids, but I'm not sure how to move forward and build trust again. I really don't know what to do.
tldr: my bf has been sending nude pictures of me to our friends without my permission. When I confronted him he drunkenly pushed me. How do we move forward from this?
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