So for starters, no I wasn't flirting with her BF. In fact he wasn't even attractive to be worth flirting with. I'm very pissed off but I need an outsiders' perspective to know if I'm in the wrong.
I got a new job as a waitress and while I've met a lot of pleasant people, I've also met all around horrible ones. The rude behavior usually comes from women. I don't "flirt" because that's not my job, and because I'm not interested in doing that at work, and because I'm not dumb. Even if I WAS interested in a man I was serving, whether or not he was with his SO is irrelevant because I am at work and nothing would come out of it. Not to mention I'm fucking 17.
But today a woman (girl? she looked young) approached me and told me that I should "quit" flirting with her BF, and that I was lucky she wasn't going to "waste her time" talking to management. I WASN'T FLIRTING WITH HIM, for God's sake. I attend everyone virtually the same way. I'm pleasant towards everyone. I actually tend to be slighly more open towards women. And like, if your BF is oogling a 17 year old, that's not my fault? I could put a transcript of the way I acted but I was definitely not flirting with him. I don't know what to do anymore. Has anyone been in this situation before?
tl;dr: there are lots of women who are kind of rude or straight up unpleasant towards me at work, I don't know what to do anymore.
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