Last August, I entered my first ever romantic relationship at age 23. After a month i had to leave the country, to continue my studies far abroad. We then went on to having a long distance relationship. We saw eachother for three weeks around christmas then i left again for my final semester, and now I just arrived back, suppposedly for good. Pretty much everything's been great so far, except for one incident.
Back in February she tells me she will soon have a guy friend [27M] visiting the city she lives in. He is gonna stay at her place, even though he has other friends in the city. My girlfriend shares a house with 3 other roommates, which includes a living room with couches. Two weeks later, the friend comes over, he's staying at hers for 3 nights. After those three days, I call my girlfriend to see how she is doing and how it was with her friend. She's a very outgoing person. She tells me they went to bars together, dancing, get drunk, restaurant with friends, brunch (a week earlier she told me she never went for a brunch and so i told her i would take her). She also tells me he slept on a mattress right next to hers in her small room (even sent me a pic of the setup), and not the couch in the living room. They watched netflix together (don't know where exactly and at what time of the day).
As mentioned before this is my first ever relationship and i've always heard before that trust is very important and jealousy toxic. I wasnt very pleased with what i heard, but didn't want to have an argument through the phone so i try to let it go. However since a few days its back in my mind. So here I am asking about other people's opinions/views on the situation, and if i should confront her with it.
tl;dr : long distance girlfriend had male friend stay over for a long weekend, they shared the same room. Unsure on correct way to react/feel about this situation.
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