I've been with my girlfriend for over a year. I'm deeply in love with her, she was very hard to get but I finally got her. A few month into the relationship, she went to go sleep at her ex's after a night out. She told me nothing happened, but I had my doubts. I feel like a fool for accepting it. But if you're in love you're blind to see and easy to deny. A year later, she's showing alot of signs of unfaithfulness. She constantly jumping from one person to another, on social media. To flirt with them, dirty talk, exchange pictures and maybe meet them. She also keeps in touch with some of her ex's and even snaps with them. We don't live in the same house, however we sleep at each other's houses often.
The latest thing, this random girl from Florida started drooling and commenting on my girlfriends Instagram pictures. She then asked for her Snapchat and my GF gave it to her. This girl immediately started to flirt and send nudes. My GF showed me and told me everything and we were both confused. I told her i wasn't comfortable with the situation. She even told this girl to " keep it PG14 ". This girl is still sending nudes. Whether it's lingerie nudes or naked nudes.
2 days passed and my GF is constantly messaging this girl. I was getting doubts so I when on her phone. Because something wasnt adding up.
The flirting is ridiculous. So i confronted her and she got mad and said she wasn't doing anything wrong. She tells me i have nothing to worry about. That she isnt sending anything back.... I said okay.
The day after i caught her trying to send a butt picture. And I told her what are you doing. She told me she was going to send a picture to this girl. And I told her why would you send anything like that to her. And she responded "its not a nude, it's okay " then told her that she shouldn't be sending anything at all to respect me and the relationship that were in. She told me she wouldn't send anything back. I went on the phone later that night when she was asleep because I caught her in the act of sending something.
So with that being said. She lied to my face and went behind my back to pleasure someone else.
I've seen messages such as " I can't wait for bath time tonight " or " I can't wait to see them tits " or " that's a nice ass "..... I can go on and on!
I don't mind if she is a bisexual but I mind being with someone who is not faithful. She has great qualities and loves me but I guess not enough to be 100% with me..?!
What are your thoughts and advice on this matter? I obviously don't want to loose her but I cannot live like this either. Help
TL;DR My girlfriend of a year and a half is sending nudes and flirting with another girl.
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