The weekend is approaching and honestly I'm loosing motivation to go out with my friends.
At the beginning of the month we met a few newcomers to the city and ended up hanging out all together. They are nice, fun people, and we frequent mostly the same places, so I guess our group is growing.
That's all find and dandy, but last week, I spent most of the time talking to one of them, since we have the same academic background, something I don't share with my other friends.
When the night ended, they started asking me if I asked her out, and when I said no, everyone just started poking me about it, telling me to do it.
I had to open up, saying I don't want a relationship, let alone dating someone. I gave up on that, but my friends don't seem to respect it, telling me "she looks perfect to you", "be a man".
Over this last week, the topic is coming out over and over again, and it's completely putting me off from hanging out with them, or her in particular, and I don't like it at all.
She seems like a nice person, and just because we are single and seem to get along, doesn't mean we have to take it further. I also don't think she talked to me with that intent.
tl;dr my friends are telling me to ask a woman out, just because we talked and got along, and don't accept the fact that I don't want to be in a relationship. This kind of behaviour is putting me off to hanging out with them again.
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