I've been seeing this guy for a little over a month now. We've known each other for awhile but just recently started talking more and hanging out. It's been a little under two months in and he's already asking me to be his girlfriend, asking me to be exclusive, and overall talking about me and him as if we're in it for the long haul. I've told him that I'm not interested in anything too serious since I might be leaving for grad school and quite honestly I would like to move away and start fresh for school. After telling him this, he is insisting that he should come with me, talking about how we'll be living together in this new city, and is making plans on how he'll make the move with me. I've tried telling him repeatedly that I think it's a bit premature but it seems like he doesn't seem to get that I don't want him to come with me. I no longer feel comfortable talking about the status of my applications and overall feel like I'm being pushed into something I'm not ready for. Should I end things with him immediately, am I reading too much into it, or are these serious red flags that I shouldn't be ignoring?
TL;DR; : New bf seems really pushy, are these serious red flags that I shouldn't ignore and just break it off?.
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