Okay so, long story short, I (20M) found my girlfriend (19F) of 2 years has been cheating.
I’ve seen the explicit messages on Tinder, i’ve even spoken to a ‘friend’ of hers that it turns out she was seeing regularly on the down low. No idea if she’s slept with anyone, don’t care at this point.
She kicked me while I was down, as i’ve had pretty bad mental health issues recently. Due to me being stressed she’s gone off to find somebody else who’s less “hard work to be with”.
We’ve had this problem before, and I believed we were working through it. We’re even supposed to be moving into a new place in 3 weeks.
I was wrong. (And i have a spine of jelly apparently).
So I’ve got my back up plan; some friends I can stay with, and eventually my own place. It’s gunna suck at first, but i’m leaving.
My question is this: How do I end it? I’m currently considering packing up all my stuff from our place while she’s at work, and just leaving printed out screenshots of everything on her desk.
Is there a better way to do this? I don’t really think she deserves closure at this point.
Have you got any stories about how you handled a similar situation? How did it go?
TL;DR How do I leave her? Help, advice, stories appreciated.
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