Monday, 14 May 2018

Help! Me and my boyfriend don’t spend enough time together because we work opposite shifts.

I am 19f and my boyfriend 23m got a new job and it’s taking up all his time. He works nights and I try to stay up and go to his place when he gets off work but I can’t, i get too exhausted to drive 12 miles to see him. He has two days off a week so he works full time. I’m about to start my new job and we will be working opposite shifts. How can I make It work? Our relationship was perfect for the first 4 1/2 months.(When he didnt have this new job. ) We fought about little things but that’s normal. He works so much now that I don’t spend anytime with him.

I try to stay positive but I can’t help but think that we won’t work. I need to feel wanted and being separated from each other for days on end Isn’t giving me the I’m wanted feeling. I know he loves me and that’s supposed to be enough but I don’t want to be like my parents. They see each other two days out of the week and fight those entire two days.

TL;DR: Our schedules clash. How can we stay together?

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