I am an insecure person. My boyfriend has a fair few female friends. Some of them often leave a lot of kisses to him in messages. I know it sounds stupid, but I just get so jealous and it makes me feel sick. He doesn't even see them much in real life as he moved away from home a few years ago. But now we are thinking of moving back near them because housing is so much cheaper up North. I am scared that he secretly has feelings for his friends and once he starts seeing them more, he might fall for one of them.
One thing I struggle with is seeing the difference between a friendship and a relationship. Surely the only difference between them and me is that he has sex with me? He says he doesn't have eyes for anyone else but it just feels weird to me that he has this history with all these other women. I'm not friends with anyone from school anymore, but he still talks to his female friends from school. I am constantly worrying about him meeting someone new at work or online. He never has celebrity crushes he says, and he seems to be demisexual, but I still wonder what if he leaves me for another woman.
TL;DR: How can I stop being so jealous?
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