This happens mainly when we play League.
We play League a lot together.Duo queue buddies we call it.
Recently, we’ve been on a 4-5 game lose streak. To me, it’s not a big deal. Like, yeah it sucks to lose but I don’t really care.
However, my boyfriend after losing 2 games or so, he starts to get into a bad mood. He loses his temper. Then around games 3 or 4, whenever I die, he’ll say I’m feeding or whenever he dies, he says to me that I hella fed that enemy and blames me.
After the games, he’s in a bad mood for the rest of the night and is mad at me. I try to talk to him and all he says is that I feed the enemy team and it sucks losing. So he makes it seem like it’s all my fault that we lose. (Yeah, it is true because my KDA is horrible or below average)
We’re both Silver 5. However, I think I play like a Bronze and he plays like a Silver or Gold player.
So, he is better than me at the game.
He thinks that whenever WE play together, we lose. But when he plays by himself, he wins a little more often.
It’s so hard to talk to him after we get off playing from a huge losing streak. He gets very mean, and says hurtful things to me like “you play like a BOT”, “you’re always feeding every game”, etc.
I tell him it really hurts my feelings when he says that kind of stuff to me and I start to cry but all he says back to me is “well it’s the truth”
This has happened multiple times and he always says he’ll “try” to fix his temper. But whenever we lose games, he easily gets into a bad mood again.
I feel like I don’t reach his expectations when playing video games. I’m the cause that we’re losing and I feel like I’m not good enough to play with him or win the game with him. This makes me feel horrible about myself.
I’ve told him that and he doesn’t seem to care. He still continues to be in a bad mood.
Like what do I do?
tl;dr My boyfriend and I play League together all the time. But when we lose 4-5 games in a row, he starts to lose his temper and gets mad at me and blames me. I’m not a very good player and my KDA is usually below average or bad. He says things like “You’re always feeding”, “I just want to win one fucking game” to me and it hurts my feelings. He seems like he doesn’t care about how I feel when he acts this way and he gets even more mad.
What to do?
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