Hi everyone,
I'm having a personal crisis tonight and just want to vent before I make a final decision on my relationship.
We have been dating just over 1.5 years, with a 1 month break up. He broke up with me on new years eve via text after a fight. I moved in with him in early March after we reconciled.
Everything was fine initially. I don't have a car, but I get to and from work by bus, and get groceries on the way home, no issues. My boyfriend thought that because he would occasionally drive short distances on the weekend that I should pay for the groceries, cook him bulk lunches for the week, and pay for petrol money as well. I was more than happy to pay a small amount towards petrol but he felt entitled to cooking and groceries as well. I also buy all the dog food, supplies etc. I put up with this for a while until his attitude got too much for me. I stopped enjoying cooking and started to hate doing it.
Around this time, I also lent him $200 for a luxury item, then when a bill of over $600 came in, he didn't have enough, so I paid it with then intention of receiving his half later. I had no money for food for myself and went without, while he still had money left over for himself. He knew I had nothing and this was a particularly bad week for me. He took a long time to pay me back (still hasn't completely) and some weeks wouldn't because he didn't feel like it and that I had savings (didn't believe that I didn't). Every time I refuse to cook he throws a hissy fit and gets so angry that I either hide in my room or just do it to shut him up. One time he got so angry that he slammed the breaks on in the car and I nearly went into the dashboard. He apologised later, but he has a temper.
Anyway, tonight was the last straw I think. I had just bought a new couch for $320 (he broke mine the other night, won't pay) he was meant to go halves but didn't tell me until we got there. After, we picked up my brother's spare washing machine that he offered us. My boyfriend was ranting about driving and wanted petrol money from me (he owes me $100s), and after I bought him a meal to be nice. He went off at me because it was a regular and not a large meal. He said "You think I'm worth a regular".
I just don't understand what happened to him. Since I've moved in with him he's transformed into this person I don't even recognise. I don't feel much, if any respect from him. We are meant to be going away this weekend for his birthday with another couple. I have also taken photos of my room (I have my own) etc. to find someone to take over my lease if needed and I'm considering posting an advertisement this week.
Is it time?
**TL;DR** boyfriend owes money, puts himself first etc. Time to go?
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