My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years. About a year and a half ago, we moved to a big, expensive city after I graduated college and got a well-paying job.
My job pays double what his job pays, so he can’t afford the bills that we have currently have and other expenses such as going to dinner (we split everything) and owes me about $2,000.
His mother who lives in another state has been unemployed for about two years. She has depleted all of her savings and even her 401(k) and is on the brink of losing her home.
He is upset and angry that I don’t give her money. Instead of paying for our bills, he sends her money every month, which I have absolutely no problem with. But I am just beginning my life and working really hard for the money that I’m making and don’t feel that it’s fair that I have to blindly give away my money to his mother just because I have saved up a sizable amount. Am I wrong?
Sorry if the format is wrong, typing this on my cell phone.
[TLDR] my boyfriend is mad that I don’t give his unemployed mother money
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