My girlfriend wants too much sex, too much to a point where sex is no longer fun for me. It's just a chore that gives me an orgasm and at this point in the relationship I can't even think of the last time I've wanted sex due to the stupid amount that she wants to fuck. On Sunday we fucked once in the afternoon, she gave me a blowjob later at night. Not long after she wanted sex again and I however, did not. I quickly told her I wasn't in the mood for it again and she replied "well... can't you at least try?".
She has masturbated to the point where it is impossible for her to achieve an orgasm without 30+ minutes of clitoral stimulation with a vibrator and vaginal sex. Oral or anything else just does nothing for her and is just a futile, waste of time.
She has no respect for the fact that I have work early in the morning and will regularly try to wake me in the early hours of the morning for sex. It sounds like a nice fantasy but when it becomes a daily occurrence it's just uncomfortable. If I tell her I have work in the morning she just arrogantly says "all you do is sit down and drink tea all day" (my job involves a lot more than that, but that just goes to show how little she respects my job because it's not manual labour).
She expects me to be able to fuck for about 60+ minutes before ejaculating and then immediately go again up to 2-3 times. Ideally for her, sex would last about 2-3 hours and in my experience she only ever stops when she is too sore to continue. (I can't even understand the appeal of this or why she would want it) As a result she will be disappointed if I cum sooner, yesterday I came after around 20 minutes which I believe is an acceptable amount of time, because of this she instructed me to masturbate beforehand today which I am refusing to do because I'm not altering how long it takes me to cum for her own pleasure, it just feels extremely selfish. If sex with her didn't last a ridiculously long time, I'd be more than happy to have sex more regularly but it goes on forfuckingever.
Finally, despite having regular sex, last night she had the audacity to claim our sex life was "non-existent" because it isn't an all day every day thing. I no longer enjoy sex and I think this relationship has gave me enough emotional baggage to affect my sex drive for the rest of my life.
tl;dr - Girlfriend wants sex all day every day and it's making me lose interest in her.
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