My wife [38F] mentioned keeping secrets from the past from me[40M] (that she hasn’t told anyone). Married for 19 years.

I wish she would have never said anything. Now I can’t stop thinking about what could have happened to her that she won’t tell me.

I’m hurt because I thought we had told each other everything back in our whirlwind romance and it hurts that she wasn’t honest.

My first relationship was full of lies and we married so young I never had really gotten over that when I met my wife.

I know I should let the past be the past, but I’m just devastated that the woman I told everything has been keeping secrets all this time. And now I am wondering if there are other secrets that she keeps from DURING our marriage.

It’s been 4 days and I can’t shake it.

TLDR - Wife has secrets, married 19 years, hurt she never told me, now I feel like I can’t trust her. I’m haunted by thoughts of shit she’s been hiding.

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