My[14M] parents[39M,37F] are back together after being divorced for 7 years. I am happy that my mom and dad are together but I also now miss my step-mom[35F] and I want to know if it's okay for me to call or go and see her now that she is not in my family anymore?

Ever since the beginning of this year my mom and my dad are back together after being divorced for nearly 7 years. They have both were in relationships but as much as my older bro (17) and I know, they have always had feelings for each other. Or at least that's what our dad told us. That he loved our mom, always have and always will.

Which is great news to me and my brother. We are happy and excited that our parents are back together and we very much like that our mom and dad are family again. I did miss my mom a lot over the years. Her work is very demanding and whenever she had time, we were spending it together. Now it's not like this, she is at home a lot and we see each other more often. And I like that. My mom is a very good mom to me and my brother and we love her a lot.

But I am here for a problem that I have regarding something else. I've said that I am happy my parents are together. But now I find myself missing my step-mom quite a lot. Before my dad got back with my mom, he was married to my step-mom. She was very good to me and help me out a lot growing up. I was in 1st grade when she came in my life and has been someone I can trust and talk to about everything. She treated me and my brother as her own children and we never had a bad experience with her.

I just want to ask you good people if it's okay for me to call her or maybe ask her if I can go and see her? I know that she is not part of my family anymore, but I just miss her and I know that she will be in town next week so I want to go see her. Do you think that my mom or my dad would be upset over this? I don't want to upset my mom over this the most. I really am happy that she is here now and I don't want to cause her any pain by telling her that I am missing my step-mom. Will she be mad at me for feeling like this? I am sorry if I am bothering you with my problems but I just want some help that's it. Thank you for your time.

tl;dr my parents are back together after being divorced for nearly 7 years. Even though I have my mom back in my life and I am really happy about that I miss my step-mom quite a lot and I want to know if it's okay for me to call her or go and see her when she is in town next week. Do you think I will upset my parents with this and especially my mom?

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