My(27f) husband(29m) has completely changed since we had an encounter with another couple.

We have been married for 5 years, I was still a virgin when we got married but he had one prior partner.

As you would expect I was pretty inexperienced when we started having sex. I come from a religious conservative home so I didn't even have much experience with masturbation. I had difficulty having orgasms so we decided to try some other things and with the help of a vibrator I finally was able to. We had what I considered to be a good sex life. I usually never was able to orgasm through penetration but my husband would use a dildo while I used a vibrator. I usually still had an orgasm every time.

Around two years into our marriage my husband brought up the idea of trying out swinging. I didn't like the idea so I said no. He kept bringing it up every so often and around a year ago we watched a tv show about swinging on playboy tv. It wasn't what I had expected at all. My husband said I've only ever been with him and it would be good to have other experiences. I still didn't want to do it, but after watching the show it had changed my mind about it and it didn't seem like it would be as bad as I had initially thought. We kept watching the show and he kept bringing up the idea of trying it and a few weeks ago I said ok we could try it once to see how it went.

My husband found a couple on a website and last weekend we went over to their place. We liked them so we decided to go for it and we ended up having sex with them. It wasn't bad at all and I didn't feel jealous or anything like that, I had a lot of fun. I think my husband is a bit jealous and has been angry. We have had a few fights about it over the week and my husband called me a whore in a moment of anger. He has been angry and in a bad mood all week and I feel like I'm waking on eggshells and any little thing sets him off into a fight. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to help him get over it?

tldr: Virgin before marriage. Husband brought up swinging around year two. After he kept bringing it up we agreed to give it a try but since then he's been very angry and mad. Anything I do seems to set him off. He called me a whore in a moment of anger, and he's never called me names before.

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