Thursday, 10 May 2018

Wife [F 42] has long term boyfriend in open marriage. [m 40] trying to figure out what I should do

Long history behind this: my wife has a long term boyfriend of 2 years. She wants to maintain our marriage as open, in part to sustain this. I’ve told her I can “live” with it as long as I’m the priority and my needs are sustained (emotional and other). However it’s very hard for me to see how she jumps at the Oppty to see him, shares these emotional connections like she has never with me. She says it is a “different kind of love” Keep in mind I’ve dipped into to point of trying to find my own girlfriend, but it’s a tough challenge finding somebody who is accepting of open marriage. I’m starting to feel like my emotional needs are not being met, which I’ve shared.

Any advise is helpful.

tl;dr wife has long term boyfriend in open marriage. Not feeling my needs are met. What do I do? Other than continue to communicate this to her

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