We often discuss how important it is for men to uphold the FLR concepts of Please Her, Protect Her, Promote Her. But, in a Loving Female Relationship (Loving FLR) women have certain responsibilities too. A man wrote in recently to say: I cannot imagine that I’m the only man who gave his all to a
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I know how men can wheedle and press their partners to get what they want, when they fear they won’t get it. I am not lily-white in that regard. If she says she’ll think about, or gives a “hmmm” or a maybe, whether to soften a “no” or because she really does want to think
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No man is a superhuman, even when we want them to be. Women expect men to have it all together at all times, to never be emotional or insecure or need TLC. But men are human too and sometimes they need reassurance because they have fears about being hurt, abandoned or not being good enough.
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After more than a decade of being single I met a man and I felt it was a good idea to give a relationship with him a try. He was very considerate, thoughtful and tried his best to please me. I was shell shocked, honestly. I thought this type of behavior was reserved for women
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I study relationships like most people study their favorite sports team or hobby. I have spent the last decade studying Marriage/Family therapy in grad school and eventually moving into defining the relationship style that we now know as Loving FLR by writing 5 books, creating videos and online education programs. I have interviewed or surveyed
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I once met a woman through this Loving FLR platform who complained that the men she met on dating apps who professed to want a FLR were actually insincere. As I chatted with her I learned that her idea of a FLR centered around obedience to her desires. She was extremely angry that she could
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I can’t believe I am writing this but it’s real. I am Te-Erika Patterson, the Publisher of LovingFLR.Com and I began studying FLRs back in 2014 as a joke. I heard about the concept of Female Led Relationships through my time studying in the BD.SM Community. At the time I was frustrated by my relationships
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Many readers have asked for a way to meet other FLR enthusiasts from around the world to discuss FLR themes in real time. Loving FLR has delivered. The very first FLR School is now open for registration. When you join the FLR School you get: 8 WEEKLY LIVE interactive web classesLive virtual GROUP DISCUSSIONS every
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This website promotes Loving Female Led Relationships, relationships that empower women. The premise of a Loving FLR is that the woman’s happiness is the priority in the relationship and her partner is delighted to support her happiness in any way that he can. In fact, he believes supporting her happiness is his privilege. But sometimes
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The term Female Led Relationship (FLR) appeared first within the context of the BDSM community but its members distorted the term so much that I felt it was necessary to redefine it and clarify how their definition was destructive to women. I decided to add the qualifier ‘loving’ to the title to differentiate it from
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Connect with other singles from around the world who want a Loving FLR as much as you do by joining the FLR Dating Roster. Your registration allows: Lifetime access to our FLR Matchmaking ServicesBe the first to be contacted when a new member joins in your areaParticipate in the pool of candidates that our PREMIUM Matchmaking
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Dear Te-Erika, I am 56 and an estimator. I want to serve my wife and be treated as a sex toy, she will on occasion but I want it full time. How can I get her to take control and lead a FLR? — N Hello. This is the most common question I receive as
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I have always admired strong, intelligent women who demonstrate their given inner powers. A combination of those traits long ago grew in me a strong sexual fascination for such women, and an inner desire to be led by and to serve such a woman, a social and cultural taboo. This led me to become acquainted
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I am attracted to strong and independent women and hope to find one through the FLR Matchmaking Service who is a good fit with me. I am looking for a woman I can support, admire and adore. A woman that I can be proud to be her co-pilot, her vice president, her knight. I hope
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Dear Te-Erika, You advocate that men not let their fears stop them from trying FLR. But there are risks. One is total loss of control of the family’s finances. I would assume this is one of the first “rights” that the man sacrifices to his wife. In a perfect world, no big deal – they
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What an interesting article I came across today. Written in 2015 and published in The Atlantic, former Princeton professor Andrew Moravcsik penned the intriguing assertion that more men should take the lead in parenting in order to support the success of women’s careers. Well, slap me in the face and call me Sally. That’s something
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Dear Te-Erika, I am a 58 year old bartender. I have been in the service industry for over 33 years. I have a difficulty in finding women that are open to a FLR. Is there some commonality that I am overlooking? Is there some way that I can take someone who has not considered a
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After being an advocate for Loving Female Led Relationships for 5 years, interviewing dozens of couples and hundreds of singles, I can feel the underlying frustration that singles feel about their chances of finding a partner for a Loving FLR. I try to coach them and simplify the process but for some people, it still
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A LOVING Female Led Relationship is a relationship where the woman’s happiness is the priority in the relationship. She expresses what she wants and her partner willingly supports her decisions to create her dream life- together. He revels in the opportunity to give her what she wants. He feels like a real man, like a
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He says he loves me but he likes being selfish. It’s been a few years since I have seen him. Him, who I have known for more than half my life already but somehow we never made it past ‘just friends’. When he looks at me I can see the hope in his eyes, the
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