How to Have Sex in a Missionary Position and Make It Hotter Than Before

Missionary, not to be confused with the early Christian ancestors, is the most used style by couples.

Although it may seem old, because anyway, it is the oldest position in sex, it is not discouraged as it is not shameful but sweet as hell.

Now, you may be one of those who still use this position and you want to improve it to the satisfaction you have always dreamt of, so ar few handy tips.

What is a missionary position?

According to Wikipedia , the missionary position or man-on-top position is a sex position in which, generally, a woman lies on her back and a man lies on top of her while they face each other and engage in vaginal intercourse.

The position may also be used for other sexual activity, such as anal sex. It is commonly associated with heterosexual sexual activity but is also used by same-sex couples.

How to do it in missionary

There are many different ways to do it in missionary. Today, I will use a guide from cosmopolitan

Use these 4 unique styles in missionary.

1. Pleasing prop up

If your partner is on the smaller side or you want to enjoy the fun of extra-deep penetration, there’s a super easy hack you try in standard missionary position.

Prop a pillow under your butt to lift your hips higher on an angle. It’s a subtle shift that changes the sensation dramatically.

2. The dirty dangle

On the flip side, having your partner stand and enter you can sometimes ease off some of the depth of penetration, should you be in a “my-cervix-needs-a-break” kind of mood.

Plus, this one is ideal for doin’ it in the kitchen.

3. The purring kitty

In CAT (aka Coital Alignment Technique), he shifts a bit so that his hips are higher than yours.

Once he’s inside you, have him lift his hips and grind his pubic bone against your clit.

He can circle his hips, rub up and down, or go side-to-side — whatever feels right.

Super sexy and intimate, great for long, passionate kisses, and your best shot for having a hands-free orgasm. Meee-ow.

4. Shoot the moon

Remember that old wooden Shoot the Moon game? You two should look like that once you’re in a position here.

Bend your legs up to your chest and have him grab your ankles as he enters you.

He can bend your legs, push them together on your chest, spread them apart, push them straight up — the challenge is figuring out exactly the right ways to play you.

When at least one of you is groaning incoherently, you have a winner!

The process

1. Start with foreplay

This one might seem obvious, but there’s a tendency to skip it in favor of the main event.

But Laino says foreplay that explores the vagina can help you warm up so try a little penetration with your or your partner’s fingers.

“Foreplay is important with all positions,” she says. “But, because of the intensity of missionary, it’s nice to work into it.”

2. Use oral sex

Remember the oral sex guide before? Well, try licking each other first.

Be it giving a head, giving a blow job or whatever kind of oral sex you prefer. This prepares both the sexual partners, the female gets wet and the male gets the full erection.

3. Play with your bosom

Don’t leave out your boobs in the game.

Play with them, massage them and pinch the nipples.

For the male, take her dumplings into your mouth, suck it and pinch the nipples, rub them softly, gently and then roughly.

Breasts always act as a way to increase the sensation that comes with sex.

4. Vary the rhythm

Change your rhythm when thrusting and getting the thrust as well.

Change the speed to faster, then, slowly, rather than sticking to one speed. This makes the experience intense and upto the best.

5. Use toys

Once again, this issue and technique, are unavoidable in this century’s sex.

Remember, use toys to increase the sexual experience between the partners but not to replace the sexual partner.

Use toys such as vibrators and dildos to increase the sensation that comes with sex.

7. Go for an inventive variation

Heard of the Cross-Booty position? Didn’t think so.

Opt for this one when you want the closeness of missionary, but with an added bit of fun.

Start with your partner entering you from the missionary position, then have him slide his chest and legs off your body so his pelvis is in the same location but his limbs form an “X” with yours.

Bonus? This unique angle gives you ample opportunity to grab onto his back or butt while he thrusts.

8. Tease her

While on top, rub your index finger on her clitoris, insert its head then withdraw it.

Rub your junior on her opening then slap it across, insert the head then withdraw it.

This technique raises her desire for you to pounce her and this usually results in her being extra we.

You can consider this as a form of foreplay or the actual process.

9. Communicate

This is always important advice for both the sexual partners.

Ask your partner how they feel and how you should insert it and where specifically. Tell your partner how you like it, talk dirty if you like to feel erotic. Also you can communicate if you need to stop and as always the other partner should respect your decision and stop.

10. Other guides and styles

Let’s get the finishing touches on all the other form of missionary style :

The sidewinder

1. This take on missionary is best if your man is (too) generously endowed — he won’t be able to enter you quite as deep.
2. In normal missionary, have him spin about 45 degrees to one side so your bodies form an X and he’s entering you at a sideways angle.
3. From here you get a hot view of his sexy back and ass humping you, and you can tell him just how steamy he looks.

The “I want you, I need you”

1. According to famous research by Dr. Marta Meana, being hotly desired is what turns women on most.
2. And there’s no better way to see how much a guy desires you than watching him hoist your legs over his shoulders so he can be inside you, like, right now.

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