I'm looking for some advice here. If this is the wrong thread for this, then please link it in the comments.
My girlfriend (19, mtf trans) told me recently that she wanted to be a cam girl to make some extra money. I told her that I was considerably uncomfortable with the idea, the thought of other men asking her to do sexual things to her in exchange for money left me unsettled. She assured me that what we had was special and when I told her that I felt selfish for wanting her to myself "It's not selfish, we're a couple. Other people will always be looking at your girlfriend, but you're the only one who I get to snuggle with and I'd have it no other way". She told me that she wanted to do it because she wanted people to call her beautiful since it makes her feel feminine and gives her a rush. So I'm conflicted: I could A) Break up because I wouldn't be able to tell what was genuine and what was the cam girl persona and I won't feel confident that it's me she actually cares about.
B) Stay with her because if I truly loved her, I would accept it and not try to control her. She is apparently really into me and feels strongly for me.
I don't know what to do
TL;DR GF wants to become a cam girl, I'm very conflicted about it.
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