So I have lived at home all my life, my girlfriend moved out when she went to uni and has rented ever since. She got evicted last year and so it was agreed she could move in to my family home.
She wants to buy a place (understandably), however, I do not have enough money yet, and to be completely honest I am not quite ready to. We have been together 1.5 years, she has said she won't wait for me and is going to get somewhere on her own. I am 100% supportive of her decision if that is what she wants. But, ever since this decision, it is like she is punishing me for my feelings. She is about to sign the documents for buying her first place, I asked her if me not being ready is going to cause issues for us in the future considering she will not be in a position to move in together in the next couple of years due to her commitment, to which her reply was "probably".
Other than this, we have a great relationship, we spend a lot of time together, make great memories, laugh lots and are very close. It is just this is creating a void between us, I want to do what's right for her, but I also don't want to be putting myself in to a situation I am not ready for. Have people been in similar situations? If so what was the outcome? Do I just ignore my own feelings to make my girlfriend happy?
TL;DR Living with GF in family home, GF buying place on her own as M not ready, but saying going to cause issues for us
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