I’ve known my wife for most of my life. We’ve been married for almost a year now, and have been together for 6 years.
I was 16, and she was 20 when she admitted that she was in love with me. I loved her too, and we decided to start a relationship. My sister hated her for dating me, but she grew to accept our relationship, and they are still best friends.
My wife has suddenly become very upset about herself. This started last week. She's been telling me how guilty she feels for dating me when I was so young, and how she should've waited until I was older. My wife has even been quietly sobbing at night, and I know it's about this issue.
I agree with my wife that it wasn't a great idea for her to confess her love to me when I was 16, but she was extremely respectful about it. I did not feel pressured by her to accept a relationship. We talked a lot about our age difference, and how to make it work, and it was worth it in the end because I've never been so happy in my life before.
I have no idea why my wife is acting this way, we haven't brought up our age difference since I was a teenager, and it pains me to see my wife hurt herself over this.
tl;dr: My wife admitted she was in love with me when I was 16, and she was 20. I loved her too, so we started a relationship, and have been happily married for almost a year, but now she has become very upset, and feels guilty about her decision to pursue me when I was young.
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