My (26F) partner (32F) doesn't tell people interested in her that she's in a relationship

We've been in a committed relationship for almost two years. We live in a big city and people here generally are very supportive of the LGBT community.

My partner grew up in a very religious/conservative small town. While her family has been accepting and supportive, she was never comfortable sharing her sexuality with people around her, like co-workers, friends, or classmates.

I've met and gone on trips with her family and we get along pretty well. Her mom and brother would sometimes call me or text me just to chat. I've met most of her friends. She never really introduced me as her partner or girlfriend, but because she brings me to almost every social gathering and talks about me constantly with them, they all sort of just assume that we are together. One or two friends did ask to confirm, so she told them. Most of her friends added me on social media and I do post pictures of the two of us a lot. I mainly post about us at the request of my partner because she "wanted her friends to find out this way". I think she's really uncomfortable with the idea of having a coming out talk with her friends so I never pushed for it.

None of this really bothers me. I knew coming out is not easy and it takes time. She's had one serious girlfriend before me but they kept it a secret almost the whole time (5 years) because they were still living in the small town at the time. My partner moved to my city after her ex cheated and married a guy.

What bothers me is that my partner wouldn't tell people interested in her that she's in a relationship. There's one coworker that always invites her out to lunch or drinks, or dinner, just the two of them. She said no most of the time, but did go get lunch with him once or twice. One of her friend's friend hugged her and tried to kiss her after giving her a ride after a party. She pushed him away a little bit. The guy apologized and then asked her to hang out. She made it clear to him that she only sees him as a friend.

She's very open with me and tells me everything, but I'm upset that she didn't let them know that she's in a relationship when she knew that they were into her. She had many opportunities to tell them and it's not like our relationship is a secret in the circle. Some of her coworkers know about us and so do her friends. Both guys are nice and decent people and would probably appreciate if she told them the situation early on. At least thats what I do everytime someone asks me out or I would casually drop the hint that I have a girlfriend in conversation if I know they're interested in me.

I had let my partner know that I'm upset about this and she thinks that as long as she let them know she's not interested, she's not doing anything wrong. She said our relationship just didn't come up in conversation and she felt weird about bringing it up if they didn't ask.

I don't know. I'm trying to see her side but it's just seems to me that there's a difference between acting like you're single but not interested and acting like you're in a committed relationship. Should I just let it go or should I be more firm about this?

Tldr: partner didn't let people interested in her know that she's in a relationship

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