A month, I got married to my beautiful wife. She's an amazing woman, my best friend in the world, kind, smart, giving, and successful. I couldn't have asked for a better partner. I love her and I would do a lot to make her happy, as she would for me.
I have a close friend, Sarah. I grew up with her brother, my best man, and her. She has a good heart, but can be emotional. I know she's had a crush on me in the past, but don't believe she has one anymore. Her brother got married last year, most of her friends are married, and she's been feeling it lately. I'm not trying to excuse her actions, but that's a background.
My FIL is a rather successful and handsome man for his age. He's been married to my wife's mom for over 30 years now. At the wedding, my MIL was busy with my wife and running around helping. Sarah took it upon herself to entertain my FIL and she got really inappropriate. She was drunk by this time and was flirting with him. She asked him to go to another room with her and started touching him. She was upset when he said no and caused a small scene, which my best man and his wife dealt with.
My FIL told my MIL after the wedding and she told my wife. My wife is irate and wants Sarah nowhere near her, me, or anyone. I hung out with her brother when we got back from our honeymoon and she was there. When my wife found out, she was angry and asked why I would be around her.
She is angry at me for inviting Sarah to the wedding. She has never liked her and did not want her there. She is angry with me because Sarah caused a scene towards the end. She is angry that my friend would disrespect her parents to the degree she did. She is angry that she would do that at our wedding. She called me friend a homewrecker and asked her how many other times she's done this with people.
This is the only time I have ever seen or heard of Sarah acting this way. It was an emotional day for her, not that that's an excuse. She's always been a good-hearted person.
Sarah is one of my closet friends. I'm close with her brother. I am close with their family. I have known them for almost the entirety of my life. It's hard to cut her out of my life like my wife would prefer. I can't control what other people do and I won't cut out her brother or parents.
Also, I have no idea how my wife is going to react when she sees Sarah the next time. They haven't seen each other since the wedding and my wife is one of the calmest people I've met, but this has angrier than I have ever seen her. I don't know how to deal with their eventual meeting.
tl;dr: My close friend hit on my married FIL at my wedding. My wife is irate, is angry whenever I am around her, and wants her out of our lives. It is impossible for me to cut her all the way out. How do I deal with this and their eventual meeting in the future? And how do I deal with my wife's anger at me for what happened?
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