SO my boyfriend and I have been dating for just over a year and a half, we started off as a little "booty call" if you want and then from there its gotten more and more serious. For a period of time, I lived at home and wasn't able to have him over so we would see each other two or three times a week and most times we would have sex (not the only reason we saw each other though.
Now, I live on my own (with housemates but my own place) and we see each other much more often, through the week and weekends and he comes over as well. However, our sex is sort of dying out.. we have slowed down to only really having sex once a week but now it has now been two weeks since we last had sex which is the longest I have ever gone without sex since I became active. Its really getting at me, someone who has a high sex drive, that there is this lack of intimacy between us but I have no clue why. It doesn't seem to bother him, and he doesn't initiate sex at all anymore.
Also, we are from different countries and I will have to move home in a couple of months. He is planning on following me there and has applied for a visa. So, I don't think there is a lack of interest in me or our relationship. But, I'm feeling really unwanted and unsexy, the longer we go without sex. I've tried to initiate but nothing.
Not sure if anyone has had this type of little dry spell in a relatively fresh relationship. I mean, I think we are quite young to be going through something like this already? Any advice or personal experiences would be lovely to hear as I'm embarrassed to speak to my friends about this. I'm so sex positive with them and I would feel like an idiot to have to tell them that my boyfriend doesn't even want to have sex with me!
Thanks so much!
tldr - My boyfriend and I haven't had sex in weeks and I don't know why. We are young in a committed relationship so I'm not sure what could be going on!
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