Hey reddit. Does anyone have advice, insight, same experience here? My boyfriend and I had been together since January of this year but friends prior for a while. He was having a couple bad days, and called me from his work to see if I would visit him for a little while. I showed up and he seemed quite anxious and stressed. I stay with him because he told me he feels better when he’s with me.
I know he has had issues with depression, but I learned more that night. We get in his car to talk and he starts crying, telling me he doesn’t know what to do with himself. He tells me he’s been ‘bad’ before he knew me, and the depression hasn’t gotten any better. He told me he can’t handle this relationship, and that I’m not losing much by losing him (I love and care for him very much and disagree). I asked if he was breaking up with me, and he started yelling. Not saying anything, just yelling. I wouldn’t leave at that point because I was a little scared for him. We cried together, and he told me he didn’t want to try medication although I shared it as an option. He tells me he waited his whole life for me and he can’t believe he still feels this way. I eventually left, upset, and called him on his way home to make sure he was okay driving (I know that isn’t the safest to do, but I got really worried).
He said yes, I said okay, the next morning I go to the messaging app and he has blocked me. This was all pretty sudden given just the week prior we spent a few days together and had a great time. I called him later that day and he has blocked me through his phone as well. I checked Skype, same thing there. What has happened? It’s been a week now and I want to reach out to him so bad it hurts. Should I just leave him be, or should I try something else?
Thank you
tl;dr: Boyfriend suffers from depression, broke up with me suddenly and has blocked all contact. I’m very upset and want to reach out, but not sure really what is best here.
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