I (17F) did something really stupid yesterday. I was FaceTiming my bf (also Indian and 18M) half naked when my mom walked in and saw me. Please spare me the lecture, I know how incredibly stupid this was. I really do like this guy and we make a good couple. However, my parents now have a terrible impression of this guy because "what kind of guy would persuade a girl to take her shirt off over FaceTime, he must be a bad guy who only wants sex. and you are just as bad for listening to his requests" We are going to college together in August (I am commuting/living at home and he is living on-campus), and regardless of my parents tracking my phone I want to make this work. We really like each other, and neither of us are bad people, we were just horny teenagers who got caught up in the moment. I wish my parents would understand this. My dad said I should cut off all contact with him and that I should ignore him in college and tell him that "I am not interested in a relationship right now, sorry." But i can't bring myself to do this. I like him too much. How can we get my parents' support? Will they eventually trust him with time? How can he prove to them that he is a good guy for me? My parents are incredibly disappointed in me right now but they say they are more worried about my safety than anything else. At this moment, all I want is their approval. However, that will obviously take time...
tl;dr : my mom caught me facetiming my bf half naked, now they don't trust me or him
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