I was in a relationship for 4 years before I met my current girlfriend, but that ended when she lost interest and never communicated with me, leaving her to leave me for someone else. I think that has put a lasting insecurity in me that is currently affecting my relationship. Every time she gets upset or she feels off or anything, she doesn't like to talk about it. I try to respect that, but its very hard because my last breakup was caused by a big lack of communication. I feel like every time it happens, it could lead to her losing interest. She always assures me that she won't but I can never help but feel it. I don't know how to cope with this, and I feel like this constant need for reassurance is getting to her, even though she needs reassurance as well.
TL;DR I feel like need to know that my girlfriend still loves me is putting a toll on us, because she doesn't like to talk when she is upset.
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