Tuesday, 22 May 2018

Me [20 F] with my boyfriend [22 M] of 3 months, he is going into the army within the next year and I'm not sure what to do

So my bf and I have been dating for about three months and he is everything I could ever ask for and more. We have talked about having a future together and how it would be like but we tend to ignore the fact that he will be leaving to join the army within a year.

I know we have not been dating long but this is the healthiest and happiest relationship I have ever been in and its hard for me to think that it might have an expiration date. I feel like I may be wasting my college years with someone that I cannot have a future with instead of being single and meeting new people or dating someone that I could have more of a possibility of a future with.

I do not think the long distance will be possible because I would not be able to travel to another state very often to go see him and there will be long periods of time with no communication whatsoever. I am not sure if it should end now, to make it easier on both of us or just basically wait until that expiration date comes.

tl;dr should i break it off now or wait until he goes into the army?

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